2008-03-27
Hot Women Should Marry Me
Undoubtedly, ugly men such as myself came up with the following study.
HERE'S SOME ADVICE for women: think twice about marrying that good-looking guy. A team of psychologists recruited 82 newlywed couples and rated each spouse's physical attractiveness and satisfaction with the marriage. They then observed how the two interacted with each other while discussing personal issues. It turns out that couples where the wife was more attractive were characterized by more supportive interaction on the part of both spouses; but, if the husband was more attractive, he was less satisfied and both spouses exhibited less supportive interaction.Why would that be the case? Why would a marriage be more satisfactory to BOTH parties when the woman is hotter than the man? I would expect that a marriage would be satisfactory to only one party when that is the case (probably the uglier one). And why would a hotter husband be unhappy with an uglier spouse whereas a hotter wife is happy when married to an uglier spouse? The suggestion that women are less concerned about looks and attractive men have more extramarital options causing him to be less supportive of his wife seem to be answers based on stereotypes and are left wanting.
So why is this the case?
This is true. I wrote an essay last week on the reality of "True Love". Here's some information included in my paper.....'"most people fall in love with someone they have known for a while [This is true. I knew Darryll for a few years before having a relationship with him. He was one of my abused employees] Therefore, suggesting that most of us are selective when falling in love. We choose to fall in love with someone who we share similar characteristics with...while most individuals who are not attractive may experience difficulty finding someone to engage in a relationship with, the obstacle of beauty will not have an adverse effect in your ability to find someone to love or be loved by... two of the most important characteristics we look for when falling in love is “kindness and intelligence… [t]hese two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship”. posted by Sonia C.
Any one who says true love exists needs to see the shrink. If you want a relationship, however, go for the insanely hot woman - and abuse her until she can't think right.